I’ve been a bit quiet lately because I am writing. (For those wondering, yes, the meet-cute scene was written. Finally!)

My first rejection opportunity is coming up soon so I am scrambling to get this manuscript ready. Even though, if everything goes according to plan, I’ll be something like this:

Why am I doing this to myself again?

Virtual Day-Long Novel-Writing Retreats

Join authors Mary Amato and John Feffer and fellow colleagues for an energizing mix of lectures, facilitated discussion, and forced time to write!

Amato and Feffer are both discipline-crossing writers who are simultaneously working on novels, plays, essays, and poetry. These writing retreats will be focused on novel writing, but we welcome explorers of any genre—fiction, non-fiction, poetry, screen or stage play, etc.

Use these inspiring virtual retreat days to take a work-in-progress further or to write something completely new.

ALL TIMES ARE EASTERN (US) TIME ZONE.

10:00-10:15         Intro & Warm up Writing

10:15-11:00         Lecture #1

11:00-11:30         Facilitated Chat (or log off and get to your writing)

11:30-2:15            Writing time

2:15-3:00              Lecture #2

3:00-3:30              Facilitated Chat (or log off and get to your writing)

3:30-5:00              Writing time

5:00-5:30              Final Q/A

$40 per person per retreat. You may sign up for one retreat or as many as desired. Once you have registered, you’ll receive three Zoom links for each of your retreat days. Each retreat day will include three Zoom sessions with writing time in between.

Sun Nov 1            Voice & POV: Establish authenticity, commit to a POV or multiple POVS, and know when to come in for a close up and when to pull back. What are the various voices and POVs in your work?  

Sat Nov 21           Recurring Symbolism & Surprising Metaphors: Identify and explore symbols and metaphors and determine how and when they should repeat. What are the symbols and metaphors that are already in your work? Are you doing all you can or do you need more?

Please note that in addition to these retreats, both Amato and Feffer offer partial or full manuscript critiques on a rolling basis throughout the year. $30 per half hour. You can cap your investment at any amount. If you’re interested, contact either instructor individually. 

Be A Good Sphinx – Charlotte’s Purpose: Weekend of Kindness 2020

No act of kindness is too small to be a part of Charlotte’s celebration and there are no limits on the types of kindness you can do.

The Weekend of Kindness is a yearly event organized by Charlotte’s Purpose in memory of Charlotte Elizabeth Carnaghan, who was stillborn on October 21, 2017. Charlotte’s family invites family members, friends, and friends-they-have-yet-to-meet to do acts of kindness and service during the weekend closest to her birthday. 

The 2020 Weekend of Kindness will be October 24 – 25, 2020.

This year’s Weekend of Kindness “BIG PROJECT” is a Book Drive for Monarch Global Academy (MGA). The goal is to purchase children’s books with Black and Brown authors, main characters, and culture to be donated to MGA classrooms. You can support the 2020 Book Drive project by purchasing books from their Amazon Wish List.

Want to Host Your Own Kindness Project?
If you would like to host your own act of kindness to be included in the 2020 Weekend of Kindness, please let Charlotte’s Purpose know. You can contact them through their website, email, Twitter or Facebook page “Charlotte’s Purpose”.

No act of kindness is too small to be a part of Charlotte’s celebration and there are no limits on the types of kindness you can do.  

Need some ideas?

📌Paying for a stranger’s birthday cake at a local bakery in honor of Charlotte
📌Donating to local food pantries or drives assisting those who are food insecure
📌Creating care packages for medical staff, firefighters, and other community helpers
📌Cleaning up a public park
📌Fill a sidewalk or street with uplifting chalk messages
📌Donate blood or sign up to become an organ donor
📌Donate to causes that provide memorial items for loss-parents
📌Creating care packages for the homeless community
📌Plant a tree
📌Shovel snow or mow the lawn for a neighbor
📌Packing bag lunches or serving at a local Soup Kitchen
📌Paying for a stranger’s ice cream, coffee, or meal
📌Writing letters or making drawings for a local nursing home

To learn more about Charlotte’s Purpose, you can visit their website.

Free to Be…You and Me (Still)

You and me are free to be you and me

In the early 1970’s, Marlo Thomas (“That Girl” & National Outreach Director for St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital) was reading bedtime stories to her young niece and she was getting increasingly frustrated at the types of stories being told to young girls. With the collaboration of the Ms. Foundation for Women, Marlo Thomas created “Free to Be…You and Me“.

How I found it: I was raised by hippies.

I mean, this isn’t entirely wrong.

For a long time, I didn’t realize that not everyone was raised around child psychologists, lawyers, doctors and elementary school teachers. My early television viewing included a steady diet of musicals, plays and anything blessed by Children’s Television Workshop.

Why I love it: I was raised by hippies.

And…it’s just a really great message and collection that was well before its time. Covering topics like fragile masculinity, gender stereotypes and gender equity in all areas of life while still being accessible and interesting to kids?!

Tell me another program that can do that.

And it stands the test of time.

My favorites

The “Boy Meets Girl” sketch is a classic. Written by Carl Reiner and Peter Stone and featuring the voices of Mel Brooks and Marlo Thomas, this segment is word-perfect comedy at its finest. The fact that it also obliterates gender stereotypes in under 2.5 minutes is *chef’s kiss.

As a child, I was convinced that this playground was just around the next corner and one day, my parents would take me, and these cool cats would still be singing “Sisters and Brothers”.

Hasn’t happened yet, but I haven’t fully given up hope.

In 2020, as part of Stars at Home, Marlo Thomas was joined by Gloria Steinem and many others to talk about what Free to Be meant to them and how much they enjoyed the broadcast. Sara Bareilles (a Sphinx favorite) released an update of the theme song and Broadway Inspirational Voices recorded a new version of “Sisters and Brothers”.

Related

  • Watch episodes of “That Girl”, a pivotal series for its time.
  • Danny Thomas, father of Marlo Thomas, founded St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital. The amazing story behind the hospital is that Danny Thomas was struggling to make ends meet and right before his first child was about to be born, he put his last $7 in the offering plate and prayed to St. Jude that he’d have enough to support his family. A week later, he got a gig that paid him 10x what he put in the offering plate. He went on to have a very successful acting career, but never forgot about his answered prayer. St. Jude is the shrine that he built in thanksgiving for his blessing. At St. Jude’s, no family ever receives a bill for their care.
  • Purchase the 2020 music: Sara Bareilles’s “Free to Be…You and Me” theme song | Broadway Inspirational Voices “Sisters and Brothers”